tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post112288828942041886..comments2023-10-19T13:49:15.915+03:30Comments on View from Iran: FashionAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09092236941440210165noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post-14432541018203567822008-01-17T12:32:00.000+03:302008-01-17T12:32:00.000+03:30Rostam, I would say that money is definitely an is...Rostam, I would say that money is definitely an issue when it comes to taarof because offering hospitality means offering meat and other expensive items. I have heard from so many Iranian families about the expense of offering hospitality to people: even people whose company they enjoy. Perhaps women are more likely to speak about these matters than men. I have found that women often speak about financial issues that men ignore. <BR/><BR/>The notion of expense as Western? That's odd... I think that many Westerners traveling in Iran never think of the expense a host has gone to for them. It does not cross their minds.<BR/><BR/>I am not sure which post you are commenting about though.<BR/><BR/>And, yes, I am prone to exaggeration, or as my sisters would call it: superlatives... guilty as charged.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post-10974229880611955292008-01-17T09:31:00.000+03:302008-01-17T09:31:00.000+03:30"a. Iranians are prone to exaggeration. All Irania..."a. Iranians are prone to exaggeration. All Iranians."<BR/><BR/>ALL Iranians???<BR/>How about you then? :PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post-65502545296824100872008-01-17T09:26:00.000+03:302008-01-17T09:26:00.000+03:30sorry but you have a very twisted idea of Tarrof. ...sorry but you have a very twisted idea of Tarrof. That's not how an Iranian mind works! (that they don't want you becuase feeding a guest is expensive!!!!! That's a very non-Iranian/Western idea!)<BR/><BR/>They make tarrof as a form of politness, regadless their financial stability. In other words, making tarrof (a generious jesture without meaning it) is a cultural expections not out of financial ristrictions.<BR/><BR/>If an Iranian invites you but hopes secretly that you don't accept her/his invitaion (you are supposed to reject it) is not because s/he doesn't want to spend money, it's becuase s/he doesn't want to spend time with you. If an Iranian enjoys your company s/he does NOT care about money. What ever Iranians are they are cheap bastards.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post-1134187497176470182005-12-10T07:34:00.000+03:302005-12-10T07:34:00.000+03:30One may no longer use a thin cotton, floral chador...One may no longer use a thin cotton, floral chador anymore? Those are not too hot, they even help shield the sun. What makes one choke, of course, is that it's forced.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post-1123149628774050922005-08-04T14:30:00.000+04:302005-08-04T14:30:00.000+04:30Anything can happen in America and has happened. ...Anything can happen in America and has happened. I live in a town that has a large and growing Muslim population, where women wearing hijab is very common place. I do not know how these women feel about wearing hijab, whether it is by pressure from relatives or is a true symbol of religious belief or a statement of modesty. I did read an article written recently where a girl on a school trip had changed into pants and a long sleeve shirt to swim, but was required to leave the pool because she was not appropriately dressed. A few years ago a woman who was canoeing drowned when her hijab got caught in the weeds.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post-1123070219643219172005-08-03T16:26:00.000+04:302005-08-03T16:26:00.000+04:30When I go to America, I am amazed by the peacock-l...When I go to America, I am amazed by the peacock-like display of religious gear by many religions. It seems to me that more Jewish men are wearing yarmulkes. More Christians are wearing crosses. More Islamic women are wearing hijab.<BR/><BR/>I guess that's just 3 religions, isn't it? It feels like a matter of choice in America. For instance, I have yet to hear of an Islamic woman in America being killed by a zealous male relative. This is happening throughout Europe, particularly in Germany.<BR/><BR/>Does it happen in America?Kamran and Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17472269903227971301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post-1122967434569938792005-08-02T11:53:00.000+04:302005-08-02T11:53:00.000+04:30There are, of course, women who choose to wear the...There are, of course, women who choose to wear the hijab. Just as there are orthodox Jewish women who choose to wear wigs or headscarves.<BR/><BR/>In fact, most Iranian women dress conservatively.<BR/><BR/>From what I can tell, many women (even those who would choose the hijab for themselves) feel pressure from male relatives to wear hijab. This is true in the poorer areas of Tehran and in smaller cities and, from what I read, in most of Europe.Kamran and Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17472269903227971301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5467559.post-1122919301879739922005-08-01T22:31:00.000+04:302005-08-01T22:31:00.000+04:30this is very interesting in the context that in Eu...this is very interesting in the context that in Europe more and more girls/women are choosing to take up the hijab.<BR/><BR/>this has caused consternation amongst some commentators and a couple of recent court cases in France and teh UK. the UK case is interesting because, as i understand it, the girl in question was already allowed to wear a "school uniform hijab", agreed with local muslims, but then she went further, against the wishes of her school, triggering a human rights case against them.<BR/><BR/>http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,2-1713854,00.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com